So Long, Mr. Bayview
by Sheryl Puckett
I first met Ralph, approximately 26 years ago, he was married and had two children, Valarie and Nathaniel. In fact, Valarie babysat my son. Back then, when Ralph first moved to Bayview, he was a truck driver and was gone often.
Realizing his strengths: a natural born storyteller, a magnetic personality, and his gift for gab, he mustered the courage to make a change. Ralph started as a bartender at the Captain’s Wheel, moved on to JD’s and later became manager at the restaurant at Vista Bay. When the opportunity came along for a business venture, Ralph decided to try his hand at being an entrepreneur and Ralph’s Coffee House was born. Ralph was the coffee shop and the coffee shop was Ralph. You wouldn’t find a more personable proprietor than Ralph. You weren’t customers at Ralphs, you were part of Ralphs family. The coffee shop was Ralphs stage and he was always on: the comedian, the actor, the therapist and source of all information. Who loves him more: his patrons or his employees? That’s anyone guess.
He loved to fish, and it was this passion that led him to start Oktoberfish Derby on Lake Pend Oreille, an event that attracted fisherman from throughout the Northwest. Many times after the cafe closed you could find Ralph on the lake with a pole in hand.
Ralph had a passion for everything Bayview, from local history to fishing. For the past several years, he proudly served as Master of Ceremonies for the Bayview Daze parade on the Fourth of July. He sponsored little league baseball teams and always helped fundraisers for local groups as well as Athol Elementary school.
Many referred to him as Mr. Bayview. Alan Rebeck said it best, “No single individual has done more to promote interest and business in Bayview than Ralph Jones.”
He was Bayview’s ambassador of good will. I had the honor of nominating and presenting Ralph the 2017 Community Communitarian Award. There are few people who touch so many lives in so many ways. We are all thankful for him.